I have been in a relationship for past 4 months. We are great together, lots of understanding and love. He is a bit of an extrovert and has lots of female friends. Though I am not at all bothered about the fact that he is pretty popular among girls but sometimes it’s hard not to feel a bit jealous and insecure. But I know he is totally into me and is fully committed to me.
How do I tackle these conflicting thoughts?!
Living in a dilemma!
Dear Miss P,
Your problem seems to stem from a lack of understanding when it comes to the male of the human species. Either that, or you need some kind of medication to fix your unnecessarily positive view of human nature. Based on what you described in your email, you should be horrified every second of the day, worrying about whether or not your boyfriend is extroverting someone’s brains out (who is not you).
To solve your problem, I would suggest you assume a ridiculously jealous stance. This way he’ll know how much you care and stop being friends with all the other girls.
Do write back and let me know how things turn out. I expect to hear wedding bells in the near future.
Best of luck!
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